THAT INTERVENTION

All Ready, set in their conventional places in the living room. Superstition.
Its India vs Pakistan ODI.

"An electrifying outfield here. The much awaited match is about to start.
India has won the toss and chose to bowl.
Here comes the first ball and its Bhuvneshwar Kumar from the anna pavilion end". (Do read in Ravi shastri's voice)

Next moment, people in the living room staring the black blank screen, with lips murmuring "Ashtothra sadha namavali" in praise of TNEB.
By the time, current resumes, it will be the match summary of the first innings.
Well, this is not going to affect the play. A better Intervention, Rain towards the end of the match, and enigmatic D/L method decides the winner.

Interventions, the speed breakers. Many a time trouble makers. Draining the pace in no time.
Some interventions unbearable. Common now a days.
Some feel highly responsible, knowledgeable and will be waiting for an opportunity to give advice. Any topic, such people can speak for hours together, without break. They feel highly privileged in poking nose in other' issues. Here, especially in education and in marriage people start imposing ideas if they smell a scapegoat. Of course, for education and for marriage there are distinguished variation in the styles.

In Education, the student most probably is forced by the parents or the relatives, distant relatives to take up what they want but couldn't do. Above influencing, confusion is what remains. Luckily, if the student at last, left to sail with his/her own wish and if the so called success delays, people crowd to speak about the failure. If the one achieves "We know he/she would do that". "If he is not, who else can do" will be the remarks. Some get second chance like Farhan Qureshi to pursue things even after the initial jerk. For many it doesn't happen.

Next marriage. Above education its marriage that needs more freedom. "They also serve who only stand and wait" - John Milton. Some stand and wait only to advice others, especially when it is other' marriage. One need not serve, its better if the one doesn't poke nose in. A person from no where appears, makes sure some damage is done and disappears in no time. The sufferers are the couples or the two beautiful families, now its two or more villages, even an entire district. Well am not supporting the stupidity of the girl eloping with her so called guy, leaving him behind at the crux. But it is not that great issue, where two sects need to give up their lives, any one for that matter, for a personal affair. Here the intervention should have been made well before, by matured, truly responsible fellows in a constructive manner. After things have happened, Whats next is what remains.

Personal interventions are of one sort. From atom to almighty there is political interference. Free gifts interfering hark work, money interfering merit. Political interventions, cause higher level damage at all levels, the simple divide and rule. To divide there must be an intervention.

Intervention, synonym interference. There are two types constructive and destructive.
Seems like civilized, matured, still destructive interference throng, while the constructive ones remain silent.

The search engine

Priorities vary with persons. But the goal is being happy anytime, anywhere. No everywhere. In this fast moving world, in the name of competition, post, power, people forget to smile even. The degree of satisfaction is poor. Money has become the sole reason for happiness. Yes, money is necessary to boil food.

But the food that enters the esophagus, should be cherished. Should be respected. Should appreciate the taste. Many people strive hard to eat one meal a day. The almighty should be thanked for what we got, what we get. If one wish to be sad, for no reason he/she can be. Its all about the inclination.

Any law can fail. But not hooke's law.
Feeling exhausted, frustrated, the search for happiness starts. Worst case is searching ways to live happily in google!!. The search engine gives n number of tips. 20 tips to be happy in ten minutes. So in ten minutes, one becomes the happiest person in the whole world?

Take a break. Rather searching in google, see around. Many are happy without luxuries. Nature always smiles, without any expectations. Once reciprocate, it will take care then. Joy is in sharing.

An elderly person, asking for help, to cross the road. While crossing, feeling insecured holds your hand tightly. As the mission is successfully accomplished, shaky hands blesses. As you walk back you hear him telling "cross the road carefully dear". A sense of satisfaction prevails for days. 

A child, in a crowded bus, with no hesitation comes and start talking in his/her own comfortable language, one doesn't understand completely but there lies sweetness. The lovely smile on the face, that day's so called tension is relieved. 

A home, build by a squirrel somewhere near the dwelling premises, with no request, but with the sense of gratitude, leaving a high pitched check in and check out messages. It has its own hectic schedule ahead. Has to fight for food, should feed the young ones, should safe guard from enemies. What not? Problems come automatically. Some times by choice.

Some attain complete satisfaction, pushing others to a pathetic state. A dangerous boomerang. All the back biting mechanisms handled, will pull thy person into the pit. Just like "urubhangam" that happened to Duryodhana. Dispassion towards jealousy is a must, if one wants unconditional happiness.  

Happiness.
This 9 letter word, the world's best feel for any soul.
Infinite number of words won't come for rescue.
A small smile, a loud laughter, silent tears says all.
Still a better search engine is there. The search is within.  

The One and Only.

One cannot be good for all, for all time.

But he was!!

The one standing firmly in the mind of people even after ages.

Some see him as an illusion; While some as God.

And he is what one sees.

Appointment with him might delay. But he never disappoints!!

Because, he: 

The disciplined son; The obedient student.

The magnificent warrior; The witty orator.

The best friend; The noblest foe.

The caring brother; The adorable father.

The one who practiced before he preached.

Above all,

The Only King, who sacrificed his beloved for his people!

The composed, ever loving husband!!!

The One and Only....

RAM!!! The Legend.

W and M - Mirror images after all

All 365 days are celebrated in one way or the other. Yes, everyday it is to cherish and enjoy. Some are declared as global variables. March 8th International Women's day. - Another Friday by the way.

 Yes, its once again about Women, Women Empowerment, Freedom. Guys might feel bored to hear the same old story and might feel irritated for complaining them for girls's sufferings. That too in the country, where A Woman was the first citizen (people know how it was) and many many other similar current scenarios. Above all, on this day, girls are served several tasty dishes that too with unlimited rose milk in our hostel mess. And now if i say girls suffer, none will even believe.

 An open truth. Guys respect and love their mothers, sisters, daughters, friends and give a very very special place to their girl friend(s). Yet sorry. Collectively, globally when this topic comes, it always reminds the cage bird - free bird poem. It has feathers, but can't be nocturnal all alone. Can be. But at one's own risk. Leave security. One was shot on her head, just because she wanted women to be educated. A little girl who wants to be a doctor, is now in hospital as a patient. Leave education, being literate stuffs.

Take the ever fascinating Love. The one who rejects a guy's proposal experiences the effect of a new face wash product, the one not advertised, not even used in beauty parlours. - The Acid. Poor guys didn't know about the deo spray effect i guess. - Ban those ads at least now. It has made no effect. See, girls are mad when they are in love. Sati Dakshaprajapathi danced for hours together, just to have a glimpse of Shiva. Rukmini Bhishmaka just by hearing Krishna's qualities, wrote him to accept her as his consort, after her hostile betrothal. Andal Vishnuchithar, she went a step ahead. She took up tough rituals. Till now no one has written such beautiful verses for their beloved like her. For those who don't believe in these mythological, historical examples, you people very well have few pages in social networking sites (don't want to publicize - colloquially alaparai ). The moment you read those realize that the very right she has to express, the same is for rejection too.

Having spoken about these, if i leave Nirbayas this post is incomplete. For those who feel, that girls are in this earth just to satisfy their biological urge, i don't want to say any. Don't even want to address them as MAN. The man has said this "Vaal munaiyil kettalum, Vensiraiyil pottalum, udal andri ullam unnai serathu" - Kannadhasan. One can't win a girl's heart by these means.

Every one on this earth commits mistakes. Few of us misuse our freedom. Even we girls didn't protest against unethical ads. Every one in this world suffer. One is not happy all the time. One do not suffer all the time. Be it men or women mistake is a mistake.
In this society, None is Independent. Reality is all are dependently Independent.
Happy WoMen's day.